I'm Polyamorous and have other partners, but I'm open to new friends and more with women, afab embies, etc. One of my favorite kinks/activities are things like, pinning my partner down as I fuck her/them (sorry for the gendered language, I'm still getting used to, but am open to queer and non-binary folks. I prefer female attributes and genitalia, but I have to wonder how much of that is internalized fear of being gay, the stigma of it, the pressure to be macho in this culture. It sucks, but I feel that pressure still) - preferably holding their arms down and pushing myself inside. I absolutely love standing behind my partner with my cock swelling and rubbing against and between their cheeks - clothed or unclothed this is guaranteed to make me rock hard. I also really really love the very rare opportunity of being able to drink from and/or be sprayed by a lactating breast. I had this with only one person, and ever since then I have longed for this. For that matter, I really love drinking my booze and champagne off my naked lover's back. If you haven't tried this, you should! I will be happy to try it with you dear reader if we end up together in bed with some handy booze, wine or any liquid really. Not for everyone I'm sure, but I love it! Consensual non-consent stuff is also a turn on too, like "fucked while sleeping".